The memoir is a unique genre. A personal form of non-fiction writing, it often borrows from the creative styles and structures of fiction. Through personal narratives, memoirs allow us to better understand the world around us and the complexities of the human experience. Furthermore, a memoir is often a powerful tool for better understanding ourselves.
It’s also a genre that’s going through a bit of a renaissance. Already this year, dozens of new memoirs have been published, giving us a whole new slew of books to entertain, challenge, and nurture our inner selves. Despite this, memoirs are still published far less often than fiction, which could suggest that standards are often quite high when it comes to memoirs. (Basically, it’s next to impossible to get a bad memoir published.)
To help you navigate the vast and varied world of memoir books, we’ve compiled a list of ten of our favorite memoirs in the genre. Some are funny, some are sad, but all of them are unique and fascinating.
Here are our ten favorite memoirs for you to read next.
Trigger warning: depression, substance abuse, illness, and child abuse
10. I’m Mostly Here To Enjoy Myself by Glynnis MacNicol
I’m Mostly Here to Enjoy Myself
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Author:
Glynnis MacNicol
Published:
06/11/2024
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Publisher:
Penguin Life
Number of pages:
288
ISBN:
9780593655757
After the extreme isolation of spending the pandemic alone in a Manhattan apartment, MacNicol decided to pick up stakes and move to Paris. Why not?
This warm and funny memoir explores one forty-something woman’s journey through weeks of sex, food, and art in the French capital. Think of it as a sort of Emily in Paris for women whose sexuality and beauty have been relegated to society’s back burner.
Why we recommend it: I loved how this book so candidly discussed a female experience we don’t see often enough in the media, celebrating the idea that women can exist outside of the identities of “mother,” “wife,” and “partner.”
Blurb
When you’re a woman of a certain age, you are only promised that everything will get worse. But what if everything you’ve been told is a lie?
Come to Paris, in August 2021, when the City of Lights was still empty of tourists and a thirst for long-overdue pleasure gripped those who wandered its streets.
After New York City emptied out in March 2020, Glynnis MacNicol, aged forty-six, unmarried with no children, spent sixteen months alone in her tiny Manhattan apartment. The isolation was punishing. A year without touch. Women are warned of invisibility as they age, but this was an extreme loneliness no one can prepare you for. When the opportunity to sublet a friend’s apartment in Paris arose, MacNicol jumped on it. Leaving felt less like a risk than a necessity.
What follows is a decadent, joyful, unexpected journey into one woman’s pursuit of radical enjoyment.
The weeks in Paris are filled with friendship, food, and sex. There is dancing on the Seine; a plethora of gooey cheese; midnight bike rides through empty Paris; handsome men; afternoons wandering through the empty Louvre; and nighttime swimming in the ocean off a French island. And yes, plenty of nudity.
In the spirit of Nora Ephron and Deborah Levy (think Colette… if she’d had access to dating apps), I’m Mostly Here to Enjoy Myself is an intimate, insightful, powerful, and endlessly pleasurable memoir of an intensely lived experience whose meaning and insight expand far beyond the personal narrative. MacNicol is determined to document the beauty, excess, and triumph of a life that does not require permission.
9. The Undying by Anne Boyer
The Undying
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Author:
Anne Boyer
Published:
09/17/2019
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Publisher:
Farrar, Straus and Giroux
Number of pages:
320
ISBN:
9780374279349
This book won the 2020 Pulitzer Prize in non-fiction, and it’s not hard to see why. Anne Boyer’s devastating, maddening memoir recounts her battle with aggressive cancer at the age of just forty-one years old.
Through personal experiences, Boyer sheds light on broader injustices in the American healthcare system and asks philosophical questions about self-representation during illness.
Why we recommend it: I loved the spectacular ways Boyer manages to balance personal emotion and detached observation.
8. Wild by Cheryl Strayed
Wild
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Author:
Cheryl Strayed
Published:
03/20/2012
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Publisher:
Knopf
Number of pages:
315
ISBN:
9780307592736
After her mother’s death, the breakdown of her marriage, and a spiral into addiction, Strayed needed a break. So she decided to walk the 3,000-mile, rugged Pacific Crest Trail.
This vivid memoir recounts Strayed’s journey into nature and illuminates the healing power of solitude.
Why we recommend it: I loved cheering for Strayed as this memoir went on. It’s an inspiring story.
Blurb
At twenty-two, Cheryl Strayed thought she had lost everything. In the wake of her mother’s death, her family scattered and her own marriage was soon destroyed. Four years later, with nothing more to lose, she made the most impulsive decision of her life. With no experience or training, driven only by blind will, she would hike more than a thousand miles of the Pacific Crest Trail from the Mojave Desert through California and Oregon to Washington State—and she would do it alone.
Told with suspense and style, sparkling with warmth and humor, Wild powerfully captures the terrors and pleasures of one young woman forging ahead against all odds on a journey that maddened, strengthened, and ultimately healed her.
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7. Angela’s Ashes by Frank McCourt
Angela’s Ashes
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Author:
Frank McCourt
Published:
09/05/1996
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Publisher:
Harper Perennial
Number of pages:
452
ISBN:
9780007205233
Born in Brooklyn to Irish parents, McCourt’s family soon returned to their native Limerick in search of a more stable life. As McCourt’s family struggles to overcome poverty and hunger, they are also confronted with the burden of grief.
This memoir is a moving testament to the power of the human spirit and resilience.
Why we recommend it: I admired the personal development in this deeply inspiring memoir.
Blurb
So begins the luminous memoir of Frank McCourt, born in Depression-era Brooklyn to recent Irish immigrants and raised in the slums of Limerick, Ireland. Frank’s mother, Angela, has no money to feed the children since Frank’s father, Malachy, rarely works, and when he does he drinks his wages.
Yet Malachy – exasperating, irresponsible, and beguiling – does nurture in Frank an appetite for the one thing he can provide: a story. Frank lives for his father’s tales of Cuchulain, who saved Ireland, and of the Angel on the Seventh Step, who brings his mother babies.
Perhaps it is a story that accounts for Frank’s survival. Wearing rags for diapers, begging a pig’s head for Christmas dinner and gathering coal from the roadside to light a fire, Frank endures poverty, near-starvation and the casual cruelty of relatives and neighbors – yet lives to tell his tale with eloquence, exuberance, and remarkable forgiveness.
Angela’s Ashes, imbued on every page with Frank McCourt’s astounding humor and compassion, is a glorious book that bears all the marks of a classic.
6. First In The Family by Jessica Hoppe
First in the Family
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Author:
Jessica Hoppe
Published:
09/10/2024
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Publisher:
Flatiron Books
Number of pages:
272
ISBN:
9781250865229
This memoir traces the tangled roots of addiction, trauma, and the myths we believe about recovery.
The daughter of Honduran and Ecuadoran immigrants in the US, Hoppe began to silently struggle with her own addictions as a young adult. Years later, she learned that many of her own family members had endured their own secret battles with substance abuse, and embarked on a journey to illustrate the relationship between race, racism, and sobriety.
Why we recommend it: I really loved that this memoir explored the experience of addiction from a BIPOC perspective.
Blurb
In this deeply moving and lyrical memoir, Hoppe shares an intimate, courageous account of what it means to truly interrupt cycles of harm. For readers of The Recovering by Leslie Jamison, Somebody’s Daughter by Ashley C. Ford, and Heavy by Kiese Laymon.
During the first year of quarantine, drug overdoses spiked, the highest ever recorded. And Hoppe’s cousin was one of them. “I never learned the true history of substance use disorder in my family,” Hoppe writes. “People just disappeared.” At the time of her cousin’s death, she’d been in recovery for nearly four years, but she hadn’t told anyone.
In First in the Family, Hoppe shares her journey, the first in her family to do so, and takes the reader on a remarkable investigation of her family’s history, the American Dream, and the erasure of BIPOC from recovery institutions and narratives, leaving the reader with an urgent message of hope.
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5. Hunger: A Memoir Of My Body by Roxane Gay
Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body
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Author:
Roxane Gay
Published:
06/13/2017
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Publisher:
HarperCollins
Number of pages:
306
ISBN:
9780062362599
This memoir tells the story of Gay’s complicated relationship with her body, with food, and with overcoming trauma. It is both deeply vulnerable and wildly powerful, all told with Gay’s signature biting wit.
This read is also further proof of Gay’s status as one of the best feminist writers out there today.
Why we recommend it: I admired this book and the ways in which it spoke to fatphobia and stigma.
Blurb
In her phenomenally popular essays and long-running Tumblr blog, Roxane Gay has written with intimacy and sensitivity about food and body, using her own emotional and psychological struggles as a means of exploring our shared anxieties over pleasure, consumption, appearance, and health. As a woman who describes her own body as “wildly undisciplined,” Roxane understands the tension between desire and denial, between self-comfort and self-care. In Hunger, she explores her past – including the devastating act of violence that acted as a turning point in her young life – and brings readers along on her journey to understand and ultimately save herself.
With the bracing candor, vulnerability, and power that have made her one of the most admired writers of her generation, Roxane explores what it means to learn to take care of yourself: how to feed your hunger for delicious and satisfying food, a smaller and safer body, and a body that can love and be loved—in a time when the bigger you are, the smaller your world becomes.
4. Becoming by Michelle Obama
Becoming
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Author:
Michelle Obama
Published:
11/13/2018
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Publisher:
Crown
Number of pages:
426
ISBN:
9781524763145
Becoming is a memoir about identity and empowerment. It traces Obama’s path from a working-class family in the South Side of Chicago to her professional achievements and eventual title of First Lady of the United States.
The audiobook is one of our all-time favorites, too.
Why we recommend it: I was blown away by the self-aware writing in this book. Absolutely compelling.
Blurb
In a life filled with meaning and accomplishment, Michelle Obama has emerged as one of the most iconic and compelling women of our era. As First Lady of the United States of America – the first African American to serve in that role – she helped create the most welcoming and inclusive White House in history, while also establishing herself as a powerful advocate for women and girls in the U.S. and around the world, dramatically changing the ways that families pursue healthier and more active lives, and standing with her husband as he led America through some of its most harrowing moments. Along the way, she showed us a few dance moves, crushed Carpool Karaoke, and raised two down-to-earth daughters under an unforgiving media glare.
In her memoir, a work of deep reflection and mesmerizing storytelling, Michelle Obama invites readers into her world, chronicling the experiences that have shaped her—from her childhood on the South Side of Chicago to her years as an executive balancing the demands of motherhood and work, to her time spent at the world’s most famous address. With unerring honesty and lively wit, she describes her triumphs and her disappointments, both public and private, telling her full story as she has lived it – in her own words and on her own terms. Warm, wise, and revelatory, Becoming is the deeply personal reckoning of a woman of soul and substance who has steadily defied expectations – and whose story inspires us to do the same.
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3. The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls
The Glass Castle
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Jeannette Walls
Published:
03/01/2005
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Publisher:
Simon and Schuster
Number of pages:
370
ISBN:
9781416544661
Jeanette Walls’s incredible memoir tells the story of a childhood marked by poverty, instability, and neglect. Through the chaos of her environment, Walls manages to develop her own creative ambitions.
In spite of her parents’ flaws, Walls manages to describe them with loving compassion, shining a light on the complexities of familial ties.
Why we recommend it: I was fascinated by this book and by Walls’ story and had a hard time putting it down.
2. Crying In H Mart by Michelle Zauner
Crying in H Mart
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Michelle Zauner
Published:
04/20/2021
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Publisher:
Knopf
Number of pages:
257
ISBN:
9780525657750
Michelle Zauner, better known as the leader of an indie band Japanese Breakfast, relates the harrowing story of her Korean mother’s battle with cancer. As Zauner navigates grief, she’s also confronted with a troubling realization: her perceived connection to Korean culture is gone.
As she comes to understand her own identity, Zauner finds empowerment and comfort in cooking the Korean dishes her mother once made for her so lovingly.
Why we recommend it: I adored this book, which was deeply moving.
1. The Liars’ Club by Mary Karr
The Liars’ Club
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Author:
Mary Karr
Published:
01/01/1995
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Publisher:
Penguin Books
Number of pages:
320
ISBN:
9780143035749
This unforgettable book is widely credited with spawning a widely renewed interest in memoirs during the mid-1990s and was recently listed as one of the top memoirs everyone should read by Reader’s Digest.
It tells the story of Karr’s dysfunctional childhood in East Texas, and her ongoing struggle to understand her parents.
Why we recommend it: I loved Karr’s sense of humor and the pacing of this book.
Blurb
The Liars’ Club took the world by storm and raised the art of the memoir to an entirely new level, bringing about a dramatic revival of the form. Karr’s comic childhood in an east Texas oil town brings us characters as darkly hilarious as any of J. D. Salinger’s – a hard-drinking daddy, a sister who can talk down the sheriff at age twelve, and an oft-married mother whose accumulated secrets threaten to destroy them all. This unsentimental and profoundly moving account of an apocalyptic childhood is as “funny, lively, and un-put-downable” (USA Today) today as it ever was.
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For both avid fans of the genre, and for first-time readers, we hope this list of the ten best memoirs will have something for you. From side-splitting comedy to tear-jerking drama, these books cover it all.
As always, happy reading!